Marriage and family versus University education, which is more difficult to deal with? Why or why not?

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    Ed N
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    Edewor

    Marriages, families and university education are integral party of our modern society. Seriously,  all of the aforementioned are big challenges for any individual engaged with them. Marriage and family are longer journeys than University education. But, the the fallout of education could be longer if you are sponsored by your family or you took loan as practiced in America.

    Either way,  marriage and family combined could be rough and daring in some situation.  Empirically, if you are married to a bad wife or husband,  the experience is like a horror movie. The progeny of such union, pose more monster-like events of our time. The financial drawback could be very humongous and difficult to overcome.  Conversely,  University education can be completed in four, five, six or ten years. It can lead to a better quality of life, if well applied. Truly,  mankind journey through this open world is bound to go via resistance, both visible and invisible but palpable. Evidentially, life is loaded with a lot of challenges. It is not limited to family, marriage and university education but, other facets of human endeavor. Your cerebral? Welcome to http://www.provocativedebate.com.

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    Ifeanyiobisesan

    Marriage and family is more difficult to deal with than University Education because, it is an Institution with no end;  neither do they graduate from it. Man by nature, is a gregarious animal because he lives in a social group; understanding him and the society implies appreciating and understanding the various nature of man and the structural organization of human society.
    The nature of man is not to be isolated but instead to be associated with Fellow human.The Institution of Marriage and Family are basic social building blocks in any society linking;otherwise separate groups into a common social Unit(Kottak 2004:487).

    Marriage is the beginning of a legitimate family marked by socially and culturally acceptable legally consummated Union. The marriage institution is a common Phenomenon. This is the basic institution in any society and it is the social context which members of a defined society derive their primary identity. Also, it has different definitions, this is owing to the fact that the family has various manifestation,organizations and structures in various Society.
    Invariably, the Larger the family the more difficulty in dealing with them due to various characters,the authority and Power structure holding them together. Obviously, it has various functions which is the basic social institution in playing a vital role central to the survival of any society and some of these functions are considered below:
    1)Nurture::Every Child is born into the family and everychild is fed,clothed,educated and cared for.This responsibilities lie in the hands of the family;Hence the family ensure providing for the welfare need of the children,thereby ensuring the survival of the next generation of the society.
    2)Protection::The family offers some degree of physical,social,economic and psychological protection to the members.Nevertheless,the government through its apparatus like the Police,social welfare department now shares these functions with the Family(Ingiabuna et al 2003)
    3)Socialization::Every society,its norm nature,custom and approved behavioral code of conduct which is passed on from generation to generation.The family perform the function of socialization,teaching the young ones the values and norms of the society.
    Indeed, Marriage and Family is more difficult compared to University Education programs because, it has no ending and it’s a continuous process.

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    Benjamin Josephine

    How do you think, could a person survive alone in this world without support? In my view, it is possible. But, describing the life of that person, we can use nothing but grey colors and feeling of despair. Everybody needs somebody. That’s the normality of human beings. Someone feels that support from family members, friends, etc. While others are looking for a loving spouse, to live the life he/she imagined. In general, marriage can be described as a commitment between a woman and a man, which is strongly connected with love, support, tolerance and harmony. Actually, creating a family means a new stage of social advancement. Marriage founds new relationships between males and females, what is thought to be the highest and the most important institution of our society.

    There are 4 important concepts of marriage life. Among them are children, problem solving, communication and influences. Some think that having a baby is stressful. Yes, it is, but, your child is a creation of yours. It is the result of the love of two. Of course, children change a lot couple’s life. But can also bring positive vibes and beauty to one’s life.  Another concept is problem resolving: It is important to realize, that you don’t live by yourself anymore. Finding ways to solve some misunderstandings together is essential for a good marriage, although it is very difficult to achieve. But, that can actually be achieved with cooporation. You build your future by yourself. Communication pay a great role here as well. You should be like friends; the best friends, who have no secrets and nothing to hide away from each other.

    To cut a long story short, marriage is a huge painting. Millions of colors and brush movements create own love story for each couple. Support, never-ending portion of love and admiration – these things make a marriage perfect. Remember that a real act of marriage takes place in your heart. So, I think marriage is more difficult than a university education because Marriage and family is self learning, it’s a life time commitment. At some point the love will definitely fade, then tolerance understanding and patience come to play which is sometimes difficult to achieve. So, in essence a person can find difficulties in his/her university education but, will definitely scale through. But, marriage is one very long road that only the patient ones can achieve.

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    okpaks nana

    The institution called marriage is mandatory to the multiplication and growth of any family. However, marriage, family and University education are essential to the upward mobility of this generation. This two sectors of life are though to handle most times. But the task of marriage and family is more difficult to tackle than that of a university. Additionally, university education could be lengthened if there are deficiencies to complete the task either academically or financially but cannot be compared to that of the former.

    Sincerely, the world is faced with challenges of various forms. But there are some that are inevitable as you go through the adventure of life. Marriage and family could be much much easier if you have a spouse that share the same school of thought with you in you dream to raise a family with sound moral background. Alternatively, life could be slow and catastrophic if you chose the wrong spouse. A partner who do not buy the idea of your vision, will not only ruin you but will also frustrate your efforts in life. In this regard, the choice you make will either make or mar you.

    Finally, university education is vital to the upward mobility of any individual or Nation. Naturally, this process takes a minimum of 3 years and maximum of 6 years and above depending on the course and level of degree attained. University degree is required to contribute immensely to the rapid growth of any organization or Nation. In addition, challenges of life is indeed enormous but marriage, family and University education are imperative to make it easier and comfortable.

     

     

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