Why is it difficult for the “good girls” to find husbands while the “bad girls” find husbands with ease?

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      Ed NEd N
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      Fejiro AghaJaeden

      The funny thing with life is that it’s unpredictable, we can’t use a formula to live life, what goes for Tom may not gonthe same way for jack. One theory I have is that, men easily get bored. When a relationship is too calm, they get bored. They like the thrill of adventure, of working for what they want, they like the wild. And so, although we were brought up to believe that if you’re a good girl, you’ll easily get a husband, that’s not the case. There are a lot of other variables involved… but being a “good girl” equals to boring in modern times.

      However , my second theory is that the bad girls might easily get husbands, but are those husbands GOOD husbands. Let’s not be quick to believe everything that is shoved in our faces. If there’s one thing that’s rampant right now, is the illusion of living the good life. Some of them may be going through hell in their marriages, but cover it up. Honestly, I don’t think marriage should be the end goal for any one( good girl or bad). There’s a lot more to living life than rushing to get married. The right person will always find you

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      Live is made up the good, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful. Truly, there is no meter to measure “goodness and badness.” But, the bad girls are bolder and more out spoken in various societies. They are also more privy to meet men of various characteristics and wealth made out of good and bad sources. Bad girls are good at drawing men attention and show casing their packages. Statistically, what you see in front of you is what you go for.

      Therefore, the bad girls will thrill the guys and before you know it; the poor gent has been swept of his feet. Unfortunately, the good girl holding on to her prayers and the Holy book will almost remain there forever waiting for “Mr. right” to emerge out of the woodward. Personally, I prefer a good girl with good manners but, should be wild with me behind the closed doors. Precisely, we are all wild animals behind closed doors, I don’t care who the hell you are. A good girl with covert badness will win the race on the long run. Basically, one thing is to get married and the other is to keep the marriage.

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      Okpako NanaOkpaks nana

      Gone are the medieval age, where good girls get married easily even without coming out of the duvet. As science and technology is fast transforming the world into a global village, so as humans and their conduct is changing in a rapid form. Men have hitherto prefer a good girl for a peaceful and happy marriage. Seriously, a quiet, reserve, understanding and patient girl is the only kind of girl that will have the endurance to tolerate the flaws of a man, which is the major reason to stay in marriage till death.

      Sincerely, majority of Men in our time love noisy, flashy and inorganic women who always showcase what they got. They prefer to date and even marry the bad girls who often exposes their “boobs”, buttocks and hot legs. The modern Man is carried away with the packages of the bad girl. That’s why you see a lot of this bad girls getting married. But the question is, do they have what it takes to sustain marriage? The answer is no. That’s why divorce is prevalent in our society today.

      Apparently, it’s difficult for the good girl to find husband easily like the bad girl. The good girl believe it’s immoral to expose her cleavages, legs and buttocks just to attract a Man. She prefers to stay under the duvet to wait for the right guy someday. Sometimes, it may take ages for them to see the right guy but if they do, they cherish him and make the marriage work as well, no matter the circumstances. On the contrary, the bad girl doesn’t have the time to tolerate the flaws of any Man. It’s either you tolerate her or you forget about the marriage. Personally, I believe the bad girl is good to have fun with but if you want to settle down and raise nice kids, go for the good girl….

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