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Emphatic NO! My parent are supreme. They are my primary teachers, protector, benevolent dictators…lol, caregivers, doctors, accountants, pharmacists, physical therapists, nutritionists, economists, pastors, and so forth. They are the reason why I am a doctor today. God will continuing to bless them where ever they are. Two factors determine human behavior, they are genetic and environment. My Dad and mum provided both to me and my siblings…….precious and priceless parent. They spanked me for correction(mum 90-99%) so that the police will never have the chance to weep me. Is this an abuse? Heck no! They implanted the positive thinking in me not to ever quit when times are rough and hard but to work harder and smarter and it shall be well with me. Mum and Dad……your light will shine from generation to generation without attracting a bill.
My father once told me and my brother Phil that he will never reward us for bad behavior and of course bad grades. It was a wake up call in every facets of life and human endeavor. Do parents need a bachelor degree to good parents? My response will be no. Majority of the present educated parents’ kids are raised by strangers called baby seaters or caregivers. Is environmental factor growing at a geometric rate compare to genetic factor? Are parents too engaged with life pursuit than caring for their little ones? Is this the latent reason why this generation of kids are out of control? The debate is open folks?